The Best Self Development Advice to the Girl Child
The best self development advice to the girl child
We live in a social media frenzy age where people get carried away by the glam and glitz as portrayed on perfect screens.
As the popular saying goes, “Not all that glitters is gold”
Every display on our screens aren’t always perfectly or completely true.
Don’t you think that a person would only show the good side of himself in the public? Have you ever wondered if they would also share their poor actions and inactions?
The fact remains that an individual would only show you that part of his life he desires to show, particularly the good side.
A lot of teenagers particularly the girl child fall victim of wanting to become what they see on social media.
TV screens, fashion magazines, social media platforms, mostly, portray the picture perfect kind of girl.
She sees that skinny girl on the cover page of a magazine with perfect figures, no pimples or marks on the face, apparently rich and affluent and so she begins to day dream, fantasize, creating a facade. A superficial pose of her feelings, emotions, her mental abilities and potentials are kept hidden in the bid to become someone else.
In the bid to achieve all of this, she begins to go out of her way to get the perfect shape, perfect hair, perfect nail and so on forgetting that the girl on the magazine isn’t always looking like the girl outside the magazine. #chuckles
In the course of trying to copy a pattern or becoming someone else, she loses herself in the crowd.
She loses her self esteem. She loses her identify and purpose in life.
Life would be a pile of waste if all we ever is do is join the rat race of living the life of someone else.
I would summarize what the best self development advice to the girl child would be in two phases
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Identify Yourself
Who am I, really?
What is my purpose in life?
How do I impact my nation and community with the realization of my identity?
When the Girl child identifies herself, this creates an healthy self image and esteem in the way she sees and carries herself..
She isn’t the kind of girl trying to be like the other girl, she is the kind of girl aiming to be the best of all she can be and maximize her potential to the maximum.
On the way to becoming you, identify and discover who you are so you never get lost in the crowd.
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Develop a sound intellectual frame work: an excellent thinking system
She is a direct product of what she feeds her mind upon.
You can’t give out what you don’t have. The popular adage goes “Garbage in,garbage out”.
Thoughts and imaginations are primarily built by content and information.
What do you read?
What do you watch?
What do you listen to?
Reading good books, watching sane media contents, listening to great music gives you an overall sound thinking system.
The state of your mind affects all that you do, so it is essential that you feed it with the right content and information.
Darling girl,on your journey to becoming never get lost in the crowd. Stand out tall and think like a PRO!
Happy International Girl’s Child Day!
